Which I totally understand. But, it doesn’t make him likeable to me.
It’s like in the MCU Spiderman movies, how it shows Flash’s parents don’t really care about him and implies that’s why he’s a bully. Like sure, that is awful for him. But it doesn’t make him not a bully anymore, you know?
And I also don’t judge other people that do like him, to each their own. Just for me, his entire personality and character is like nails on a chalkboard.