enbyecho,

You’re still trying to have this conversation about me

I’m sorry if you feel this is aimed at you and is personal. It’s not, but we are debating and you are in a sense representing that demographic.

Specifically you display some traits of a demographic that has not yet learned that you at once have enormous power collectively and very little power individually.

For example you display the tendency of that demographic to think that the entire political system should revolve around them and their particular desires. That somehow our political system is zero sum and that everyone believes or should believe exactly as you do and that if you don’t get 100% of what you want you have failed. You haven’t failed at all! You got some of what you want and others got some of what they want. That’s the success of democracy. And, crucially, that’s your power.

So when you say, to paraphrase, “if only they just had candidates that are popular” you are really saying “candidates my demographic likes”. I’m sorry, that’s not how it works for the simple reason that there are other demographics and other cultural and political beliefs. AND… they vote more.

I think we should end it there although you are welcome to have the last word. But I want to say one last thing: We have made enormous progress and having lived that is a key difference between someone younger and someone older like myself. When I was in my teens I was assaulted and beaten for being queer. Another time I escaped being raped and probably murdered only by sheer luck. For the longest time I couldn’t legally marry. All because of who I am. Now, as a queer and transgender person, I can literally go to at least a few work places and have them respect my pronouns and gender identity. I don’t often fear for my personal safety. I even have our president publicly acknowledging this fact and speaking in support of who I am. And I’m happily married.

This is not everything and there is a lot of work left to do. But HOLY FUCK that is enormous progress in just a few decades.

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