There have been times I’ve wanted 8, but only because I wish I could explain to them why, or tell them how much I love them. But I’m also convinced that, like a 4 y/o, you could explain why without them either caring or really understanding, and I’m also pretty sure now I know how to let them know I love them in ways they already understand. And I think I already understand most of what they’re saying. So I feel as if 8 would be a waste.