You transition, they risk their lives with their hubris and hate. At 18 or ready to move out you just leave them.
This is partially joking, but if they really want to be that obtuse and hate filled then do you really owe them anything? Do what you want, if it’s not what they want you to do then blame it on a thing (not person or group) they don’t like and they will redirect hate to that instead of you. You can even blame 5G if you want.
You deserve to be yourself and they deserve what they give.