This is the way to be. There is so much good music out nowadays, and being a hater will just end up with you missing out on some really good stuff.
I can’t do any of the garbage modern country stuff, either, but I can listen to modern bluegrass. That genre is full of shredders.
I like to imagine I have ‘musical ADHD’, because I can really enjoy everything from classical music, to death metal, to hip hop, to jazz, to pop, etc. I find I get bored if I listen to just one genre for too long.