Aight so while this is accurate can we not pretend that names for groups have to mean anything? I’m anti-(democratic peoples republic of korea), if you go by the name I’m anti-democracy not anti-totalitarianism
I think there’s a big difference in addressing a group as dudes and adressing an individual as dude. Dudes being used gender neutrally seems common, but I rarely see dude used to adress women. Aside from my shitty uncle, who calls his daughters guy and dude cause he wishes he had a son and is a terrible parent.
I don’t use guys or dudes to address my friends qhen transfems are present, sometimes it’s hard finding a substitute word but generally folks works and if not it’s not like it’s a big deal anyways. I haven’t asked them whether they’re comfortable with me addressing them either in groups or solo as guys or dudes because I don’t want to put the responsibility for my behavior on them, you know? So I just don’t do it
It’s pretty simple, if they’re being used to replace benches to stop people sleeping there, they’re hostile. I certainly wouldn’t mind having them in addition though.
Imo femboys are in a weird split between kink and identity. Not just different people getting different things out of it (although that’s certainly the case as well) but the concept in general. I think this exacerbates the fetishization, but people gonna fetishize everything, regardless of whether it’s inherently sexual or not.
Claiming that being a femboy is necessarily partially kink is harmful.
Sorry, that’s not what I meant at all. Being a femboy absolutely does not have to be kink related at all.
Would you say the same about other nonbinary people? Is being a tomboy driven by kink? Is being trans driven by kink?
Absolutely not.
What I mean is that the femboy label has sort of a split nature in the public eye as an identity and as a fetish. These two aspects generally coexist without problems, because context exists and most people have the self awareness to not treat masc people presenting fem as fetish objects. Then, when they don’t, you get posts like this. I think I misspoke when I said “as a concept”. I didn’t mean that the two natures of it were tied together per person, being masc and presenting fem absolutely doesn’t need to be related to sexuality at all. Just that essentially it exists as both an identity and as a kink, both using the term femboy, and that we suffer from not being more specific/using more specific terminology to distinguish the two.
I think you’re telling on your own views more than you’re explaining how the world works.
Well, yeah, I’m talking about my view and my understanding of the world. What I’m saying is through the lens of my perception and understanding.
Identity exists separate from sexuality, full stop.
Yes, I agree.
Unless you want to revoke all trans and nonbinary identities from aro/ace people too.
I’m not trying to invalidate anyone here =/ I hope you understand what I meant better now.
It depends on whether the game improves. Cyberpunk got patched into a decent state, no mans sky as well. I doubt that’ll happen with starfield, but maybe.
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