activ8r

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activ8r,

Semisexual is half every sexual. Or is that demisexual?
Now I’m more confused than when I started.

activ8r,

Technically true, but if you can be kicked for no reason, you can be kicked for any reason.

activ8r,

You are a series of electric impulses interacting with a construct of flesh, blood and bone. You have adopted this organic machine so you may traverse the material plane and interact with other flesh golems. This is life and in time you will grow weary of it. Only then will your impulses dissolve into the void and you will become truly one with the universe.

Or at least that’s what my mum told me at bedtime.

activ8r,

Fucking hell, this was cold and I am a terrible person for laughing at it.

activ8r,

They have that much information on us I’d be surprised if AI was even useful to them.

activ8r,

OOP could be a fully functional Artificial Intelligence in a video game and no one would notice.

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alt-textIt blows our hivemind that the United States doesn’t use the ISO 216 paper size standard (A4, A5 and the gang). Like, we consider ourselves worldly people and are aware of America’s little idiosyncrasies like mass incarceration, the widespread availability of assault weapons and not being able to transfer money via...

activ8r,

The US is a former British colony, but it doesn’t stop them from doing whatever the hell they want. Utter lunatics…

I’m sorry, I still haven’t forgiven them for the whole tea thing…

activ8r,

Which, funny enough, is exactly what she doesn’t want to do 😄

Given how she wants direct and straight forward communication, he should probably ask her instead of making any inference in this case.

activ8r,

In those situations processing emotions, let alone finding the words to describe them, can be as difficult as imagining a new colour. It’s just not going to happen and trying to get them to open up will just build frustration/anger/anguish as they are unable to mentally deal with either their emotions or the questions.

activ8r,

That seems to be true on many subjects these days…

activ8r,

It would have to be cringe to be accurate

activ8r,

I can’t help but feel that your original comment was solely so you could post this one when you were corrected.

activ8r,

Chiaki4Deck is amazing and added a lot for me. Don’t have to stop playing FF7:Rebirth when someone else wants the TV 😄 Just pause, switch over, and keep playing. PS Portal seems like a good idea until you realise your phone can do the same thing with your existing controller and a £10 attachment.

I did (pre steam deck) get Chiaki working on my homebrew switch. It was okay, but nowhere near as good as the deck is performance wise.

Edit: Word

activ8r,

It’s a word used by children who are worried their mum will yell at them for saying bitch.

activ8r,

This is what confuses me. No one is making these people work so hard. Just have a bowl of dry cereal and a glass of milk.

activ8r,

Not to mention the ridiculous amount of “rape fantasy” porn that is completely normalised.

activ8r,

Couldn’t afford that 4th “e” huh? I get it. They are getting pricey.

activ8r,

That guy isn’t a Dom. He is just a sexually aggressive partner.
Real Doms require consent and that guy did not consent to being spoken to like that. Once boundaries have been established then that kinda talk can be hot as fuck, but based purely on this video alone the interviewer could have been anyone.

Overtly aggressive talk like that right out of the gate is not sexy, it’s just aggressive and can go very wrong if the person you are talking to is a sexual abuse victim (which, in my experience, does appear to be more common in members of the BDSM community, make of that what you will).

So anyone who looks at this video and sees no issue with his behaviour, take a step back and look at yourself. You don’t know what other people have been through and it’s incredibly important to make sure that people have a foundation of safety in any D/S communication, no matter how brief.

I can only hope that this wasn’t their first interaction and it was played up a bit for the camera. Otherwise this is simply unacceptable.

activ8r,

I agree there is definitely some element of that for many people. I am a Domme myself and a lot of that is liking the control in the bedroom. I would never dream of talking to someone like that as a first interaction, but I have said much worse without blinking an eye under the right circumstances.
The opposite is true as well. I have found many Subs that like to be submissive within strict boundaries. At the end of the day it’s all about having control and that is defined on both sides, just in different ways.
I’m sure there are infinite more circumstances and thought processes as well.

Though I would like to highlight it’s not everyone. People are all different and there are many members of the BDSM community that haven’t experienced sexual abuse or any other kind of abuse. Just normal people that like to get freaky.

activ8r,

I’m sure it has nothing to do with the guy who started and continued talking about sex being a baby faced white guy and the other dude being a fit black guy.

It’s not.

I think it’s incredibly telling that very few people are considering it sexual harassment at all for a stranger to come up to someone on the street, shove a camera and microphone in their face, and start questioning them about their sexuality and sex life.

Asking a question about someone’s sexuality isn’t sexual harassment. That’s a really weird thing to think.

activ8r,

I started writing an annoyed reply then realised that maybe you just have a radically different level of comfort than I do.
I’ll ask some of my friends who are not in the BDSM community for their opinion and I promise to have an honest re-evaluation of my thoughts on this, while taking your perspective to heart.
Please consider that the video does appear to be in a setting where people would be more likely to answer these questions happily. However I am basing that on a few assumptions, so maybe I am mistaken.

I would ask you to consider how your comments come across to others. I’m sure you are simply trying to establish reasonable boundaries for people of your comfort level, and I absolutely respect that, but your comments in response to me were very aggressive from the beginning.
And yes, I do see how my exact complaint with your comments may be related to your point about the video. I will take some time to give that consideration as well.

activ8r,

It’s just a joke. RGB lighting is used in digital displays/lighting.
The sky is normally Blue.
They are now showing it as Red.
So naturally Green skies will follow.

activ8r,

Wow. What an incredibly sexist comment.

activ8r,

Damn, that is interesting. Thanks for the pointer!

activ8r,

The important thing was that I had an onion on my belt (which was the style at the time).

activ8r,

My guess would be that it’s relatively quick for them to do and it allows them to bring the Witcher 3 back into the public eye whilst also getting some good will from the active community. Bet they announce another Witcher game release soon.

activ8r,

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