june

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june,

Oh no

Anyway, I’m going to Vegas later this week to get messy with my friends for my 40th. Anyone have any recommendations for places to hit?

june,

Ooh, good call. Too bad I’m not renting a car. How much do you think Uber will charge for the service?

june,

Yep! Have tickets for that already. Very excited.

june,

A shitpost is the fact that I’m going to rainforest cafe for my 40th birthday in Vegas.

A shit post is that I’m going to rainforest cafe for my 40th birthday in Vegas.

We are not the same.

june,

It’s a good approach because their base is open to it. They are used to listening to that cadence and inflection with openness and willingness to swallow whatever poison is in the message, and that conditioning makes it so that the content doesn’t matter, only the delivery.

I doubt she even recognizes that she’s doing it too. She’s just used to authority with a microphone speaking this way and so she does it too. It’s exactly how I used to be before I got out.

june,

I’m curious to understand more of the setting where they collected this data.

If they collected it from volunteers who signed up for studies, then I’d question whether or not the data collected is reliable. In a clinical setting people are more likely to push through discomfort than they are at home on their phone. I don’t have the stamina to look through every referenced study to try and suss it out though.

june,

You literally just described how it’s a mental health save though. If a content/trigger warning gives you the opportunity it’s to skip the content and not be put into a bad mood, that’s a mental health save. For you, it’s maybe small. For someone with cptsd, it could be pretty fuckin big.

june,

Gotcha.

I didn’t have that experience in school (albeit that was 10 years ago) and the only places I’ve seen TWs is the internet.

So maybe it’s a situation of time and place when it is and isn’t effective. But in a case where there’s no opportunity to abstain, then I agree with you that it’s merely a forewarning and largely useless aside from keeping the topic from causing a bit of whiplash.

june, (edited )

To be clear, I conditionally agree with you based on the context and setting where it’s used. But, that’s what they are. Content labels. And a content label (ostensibly) should allow you to decide in advance if you want to consume the content. If you don’t have a choice in the matter, what’s the point?

We’ve been rating movies for forever for this exact reason. To give people information to decide if they want to consume the content considering the violence, sexual content, language, drug use, etc.

In the case of trigger warnings, they’re intended to say ‘this content is potentially triggering for some people due to this particular topic’ (SA, eating disorders, drug use, etc., all have vulnerable people who can be genuinely triggered by reading content about it, especially if it’s in detail). And having the opportunity to not consume that content rather than be slapped in the face with it is a mental health save. It has value in that context, which you even described in your own comment. You sometimes like them, and that’s when I’m saying they have value as trigger warnings specifically.

I didn’t think I was being unclear and I’m sorry if I was, but we seem to agree here. You just appear to be saying ‘all trigger warnings are dumb and don’t help with mental health’ while going on to describe how they (sometimes) help with mental health.

june,

I’ve seen a lot of modern studies with questionable data collection. It was a significant portion of a few of my psych and sociology classes in college.

The nature of this study would suggest to me that they take it into account as it doesn’t feel like it’s pushing an agenda, but it’s still good to be skeptical. Especially with regards to such vague and difficult to assess responses.

june,

I sometimes try to adjust my side mirror to reflect back at them. I’m positive I fail every time because the limited range of the mirror motors, but it keeps me from getting angrier at least.

june,

I have only watched the Apple TV show and the main character is a woman. I’d have never known lol.

june,

Looking forward to getting mine at Claire’s!

june,

Ooohhhh you’re turning into Chidi.

june,

It’s really brilliant. Like, really really brilliant. I think you’ll appreciate as someone who’s studying ethics.

june,

Oh yea. You’ll def love it when you have time to get to it. I envy you the opportunity to see it for the first time lol.

june,

Make a game about snuggling everywhere you can in a Gotham like city.

I’m trans. This is a good idea.

june,

Ah ok. I thought you were looking for novel ideas.

june,

Enough cream and sugar and they both taste the same. That’s my strategy.

june,

Exactly the same for me. There’s a great library of PCVR games that doesn’t exist in PS5 right now, and several are racing games that I want to play again. I’m thrilled to hear there’s PC support coming considering this is one of the best headsets you can buy right now.

june,

Here’s my girl that crossed the rainbow bridge a couple weeks ago

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/a236e9c0-7a9b-4e9f-87ef-7856f27d3f4f.jpeg

And here’s my boy that’s been keeping me company and helping me heal

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/1ae037fd-e289-4afb-bc37-228b6c564dd9.jpeg

june,

I’m thinking about getting one of those donuts for my cat. What’s your experience with it?

june,

I just figured out the instance name lmao

june,

I finally got my shark last week! Feels like I’ve officially joined the club after 2 years of being out lol

june,

The IKEA Blahaj shark is a trans/bi/gay plushy icon. The connection of the ‘gayest shit ever’ and ‘blahaj’ in the same meme did it for me.

june,

It’s def a bit of an open in-joke within the gay/trans/bi communities. I can’t recall how it came about but it was a whole-ass big thing a few years ago and now it’s just a part of the culture. Both me (trans non-binary) and my (trans-masc) roommate have one.

june,

Why do we assume ‘explorer’ has a positive moral implication?

To me, looking through all of history, exploration has largely been a net negative to humanity. Modern day exploration isn’t terribly far off. The more we explore the ocean the more we strip it of resources. The more we explore space the more we look to exploit it for wealth.

Explorers are enablers of worse people at best.

june,
june,

Being trans or non-binary is a gender thing, not a sexuality thing.

Maybe a nitpick, but felt it’s worth noting. I’m trans non-binary but that doesn’t say anything about who I’m attracted to.

june,

I’ve got trans and enby friends who don’t like being called ‘dude’ because they have gendered connotations associated with the word.

I’m in the PNW for reference.

june,

In my experience it really matters how it’s used. If you call someone a dude (that dude over there) it’s generally seen as gendered. If you use it like ‘dude that’s so rad’, it’s not gendered and is more of a soft expletive.

However, it still causes dysphoria for some folks, so when I’m unsure I’ll ask and then respect their preference.

june,

And bis. This is also the bi shark. I believe it was the bi shark first but so many trans femmes and femboys are bi that it got jumbled up.

june,

Thank you for stating this directly. It really helps my imposter syndrome to know that straight people are straight. If I were straight I would not have enjoyed kissing him or touching his dick last weekend. But I enjoyed both. Quite a lot.

june,

I’d take that over the work week I’ve had

june,

Most of us don’t and many of us are skeeved out by this. I recognize that it’s stupid and these eggs are fine, but it still makes me feel gaggy looking at them.

june,

I came her to ask the same question.

june,

I like letting stories finish and would have enjoyed the final installment as much as I did the first two… with mild to moderate enthusiasm.

june,

Souls games, cod and most other FPS games namely the multiplayer, god of war, RDR2

june,

Forbidden west is an excellent successor

june,

That’s ok. It’s not for everyone.

june,

I thought she was holding a hedgehog for a second

june,

Yea idk, when I disagree with something it’s usually because I’ve given it the chance to convince me and it failed. And if I agree with something it’s because I’ve taken the time to understand it. It would be a bit weird to not feel like things I agree with are the right, or better, direction and that the things I disagree with are somehow broken in their reasoning.

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